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Why you should Choose to Cruise with a Baby

Admittedly I had never cruised before our Mini-Hobo came into our lives.  A backpack and passport are more my style.  Parenthood got to me though and I couldn’t justify sneaking my baby into a hostel.  Hubby Hobo and I decided the best way to travel with our baby was to try a cruise.  Here are 7 really solid reasons to cruise with a baby.

Always an Appropriate Excursion – There are lots of options for excursions once you

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get to port.  Cruisers book these ahead of time and we found there were many baby-friendly day trips available.  Since we did an Alaskan cruise we opted for a hike to Mendenhall Glacier, a 14 Person Pedal Bike Tour, and a Duck Tour where our vehicle meandered around town and then drove into the water to boat around the harbour. Mini-Hobo just hung out in a carrier on my back.  There are lots of great options for scenic hikes or simply exploring the shops and restaurants in each town.

Doting Elderly People – Let’s face it, the majority of cruisers are seniors.  This isn’t a bad thing though!  Elderly people LOVE babies.  You will never be short of hands on a cruise.  If you need a minute to grab something out of your diaper bag there are lots of Grandmothers and Grandfathers who jump at the chance to hold your wee one.  People even bought our baby souvenirs and gifts!

Room Service – This was a lifesaver.  Any parent probably knows that babies can be

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early risers.  Add in a time change and you might just find yourself up at 5 am everyday with no access to food until the dining hall opens at 7.  The solution? Room service, my friend!  It is free on ships and you can put in a standing order.  We had coffee, eggs, fresh fruit, and pastries delivered to our door at 6 am sharp every day.  And the best part is that it is all included so no extra fees!

Balcony Naps – My advice to you if you are going to cruise with a baby, splurge on the

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balcony! While baby is napping you can sneak out onto your little deck and enjoy the sunshine and scenery instead of being trapped inside a dark quiet room on your vacation.

Same Room Every Night – The beauty of a cruise is that you get to travel to many different ports or countries but your little one can sleep in the same familiar room every night.  This is especially amazing considering how much gear babies need.  You only need to pack and unpack once.  Most cruise lines will provide a crib for your baby to sleep in.

Lots of Onboard Entertainment – There is no shortage of things to do on a cruise.  Whether it be hanging by the pool, watching the evening show, testing your skills at trivia or bingo, or simply wandering the ship and taking in all the sights…. you’ll find lots of ways to entertain yourselves and your bambino.

Babysitting Service – Most cruise lines offer a babysitting service.  Some cruises only offer babysitting while in transit so check with your cruise line ahead of time.  The rates are fairly reasonable (about $10/hour).  Put baby to bed and go catch the evening show or book a fancy dinner so you can enjoy  a little time with your travelling companion.

There you have it!  7 Reasons you should Choose to Cruise with a Baby.  Travelling with a baby is never perfect but for us this was a great combination of a vacation that was stress-free and manageable while still enjoying the splendour of new and stunning sights.

 

 

Life on Mount Cameroon

5:00 in the morning came quickly but I was ready.  I crawled out from under my mosquito net and pulled on my 12 year old Umbro shorts then layered up with some other clothes I knew would get destroyed.  After pouring dirty water down the toilet to make it flush I met the others in the lobby of our “hotel” in Buea, Cameroon, Africa.

After some bread and bananas for breakfast we started walking with our head lamps.  The chatty morning people led the pack while the others lagged behind dragging their feet and rubbing their eyes.  Strolling down the street to the base of Mount Cameroon we saw the town slowly come alive.  Children heading to school in their uniforms, packed buses that could not possibly have met safety regulations, and livestock being herded or fed shared the morning with us.

The air was cool but thick with humidity when we started at the base and clambered through the dense rainforest at the base of the mountain.  Lush greenery and sweet smells overwhelmed our senses.  By this point all 16 members of the group were alert and excited for the adventure that lay ahead.  Laughter and jokes rang through the forest amidst the huffing and puffing of trekking a steady uphill. IMG_0503The porters, however, seemed to be having no issues.  They passed by us in nothing but flip-flops carrying 12 L of water on their head.  They must have learned this from their younger sisters whose main job of the day was fetching water and taking care of the siblings.

 

About mid-day we took a rest before tackling the section of the mountain fondly nicknamed, “The Wall”.  This rocky climb is the most vertical ascent of the towering volcano.  We Westerners changed our socks, drank water from our camelbacks, and replenished our energy with protein bars.  The porters huddled together, also taking a rest.  The occasional porter smoked a cigarette or ate a banana.  These young men were lean and strong; made for climbing mountains.  The climbers of our group, although fit, were carrying around an extra 20 lbs of bulky muscle; stylish in the western world but totally impractical for climbing uphill for two days.  The tall, slim Cameroonians looked like they could walk for weeks.

The porters led the way up the steep Wall while we clambered OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAbehind mostly on all fours. The excessive panting and jagged rocks were worth it because when we reached our camp for the night we were met with a stunning view of rolling hills.  The yellow grass shimmered in the warm afternoon sun.  We rested, revelling in our accomplishment of the day, while the porters made dinner.  I should have eaten more but I could not stomach the soggy noodles and greasy chickpeas that lay awaiting for us in the communal pot.

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Bed time was approximately 7:00 when the sun set.  We had our choice of snoozing in the hut infested with rats or testing our fate sleeping under the stars with the mountain lions. Using a moss covered rock as my pillow I opted to rest surrounded by the openness of the mountain and cuddled with my friends for warmth.

The next morning we woke at a gruelling 3:00 to try for the summit. In single file silence we paced upwards in the pitch black with only our headlamps and the experience of the DSC00351porters guiding us. We lost half of our team who were too sore or tired to continue to the top.  The patient porters took them down to the hut where we made camp the previous night. cameroon 13Just as I felt that I could not take one more step upwards the sun started rising.  Rejuvenated by the energy of the rays and the stunning scenery that lay waiting for us at the top of Mount Cameroon, we continued on in high spirits.  As the temperature got warmer we began peeling off our layers and giving them to our porters as a thank you.  They were thrilled to receive the gifts and would wear them for many future treks.

The last stretch was easy.  We clambered up the steep tip to take in the cloudy view and of course take our picture with the sign!  2200 m… we had made it. The sense of accomplishment was something I will never forget.  The porters looked on at us kindly; understanding that the climb was much more challenging for us than it was for them.

During the descent one of the porters offered to take a few of us to see the volcanic crater.  Standing on the ledge of one of the most active volcanoes in Africa makes one really appreciate life.  Looking into the gray depth of this giant hole in the Earth I could only imagine what it would have been like to be a citizen living in Buea during the eruption in 2000. As if echoing my philosophical thoughts the porter pointed to a single purple flower growing from the charred lava rock nearby.  “Good can always come from bad,” he said as he pointed to the solo blossom.

 

It was noon and we needed to finish our descent before sun down.  We climbers thought that the way down would be easy but we could tell by the focus of the porters that we still had our work cut out for us.  On the way down we would hear the porters murmur “Ashia,” to each other and anyone they passed.  When we asked the mild mannered porters what Ashia meant they said, “Courage”.  Courage is definitely needed for life on the mountain. Every year in Buea the Race of Hope is held on Mount Cameroon.  Sarah Etonge won first place four years in a row on this 40 km run with a elevation difference of 2500 m.  Sarah, a Cameroonian who lives at the bottom of the slope, has earned the nickname, “Queen of the Mountain”.  She is a single mother who trains once a week in between taking care of her seven children.

 

Using switchbacks to make the descent easier and calling out to each other when loose lava rock came tumbling down ensured most of us to made it down the hill.  One girl twisted her knee and had to be piggy-backed to the bottom by the strongest porter. Dirty, exhausted, and hungry we thanked our brave guides and stumbled back to our hotel to enjoy a shower (albeit with limited water) and a warm dinner.  One can only wonder what the porters were heading home to. Maybe after the gruelling climb of the mountain they had to help their families with the livestock.  Perhaps they would use their hard earned money to pay tuition for a younger sibling to attend school.  Maybe they themselves were training for the Race of Hope with the ambition of winning the large cash prize and the coveted title of Champion.  Or maybe they would just wait for the next group of climbers and then they would repair their best flip-flops, don the toque given to them by a previous tourist, and set out on the Mountain again.

 

 

 

 

 

Travelling with Kids

I have some exciting news to share… I gave birth to a Mini Hobo!  Once I got over the aftershock of becoming a new parent I immediately started brainstorming ways to travel with my wee one.  This section of my blog will provide advice for travelling with your own little ones.  After all, just because you are a parent doesn’t mean you’re destined never to vacation again! It just might be a little different.  🙂

 

Flying with a Newborn

This past year my life changed…. I gave birth to a Mini Hobo!  Since it had been awhile since I’d been on an adventure, I anxiously jumped on the chance to have a long weekend visit with one of my old University roommates.  Problem was, she lives in Thunder Bay which is a two hour plane ride away.  This posed a whole new challenge for The High Class Hobo –  “How do I travel economically with a newborn?”

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Turns out, if you do your research, it’s fairly easy.  After all, children under the age of 2 travel for free on most airlines.  Here’s what I learned:

Choose your Airline Carefully – Before MiniHobo came along I would simply chose the cheapest flight and off I went.  With a baby there are more things to consider.  First you need to ensure that children under the age of 2 travel for free.  Second, check the baggage restrictions. Some airlines make allowances for travelling with children and will allow  an extra carry-on and a stroller in checked baggage for free.  Lastly, if at all possible, pick a direct flight.  Boarding, take off, landing, and disembarking are quite the process with a little one so make your life easier and go direct (even if it costs a little bit more money).

Pack Light – I know this is virtually impossible with a baby but the less you have to lug around and keep track of, the better. Your child does not need allllll their toys.  Similarly, you do not need alllllll your clothes!  Pick the essential things and try to figure out what you can do without.  For example, don’t bring a bottle warmer, just ensure there will be access to hot water at the place you are staying.  Try and arrange items like car seats, playpens/cribs, and strollers to be available at your destination instead of bringing them.

Get to the Airport Early – Arrive early!!! Babies come with so many unknowns.  It’s hard to predict when a newborn will need to eat or have a massive exploding diaper.  They can also pick up on your stress so if you are at the airport in plenty of time, everyone will be more relaxed.  We hit traffic on the way to the airport with Mini Hobo and it was a very tense experience!  Somehow Mini Hobo toughed it out and went hungry and dirty while we ran through the airport to catch our flight.  What a champion!

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If you can get someone to drop you and your wee one off at the airport, go for it!  Park and Fly is just one more exhausting step in the process so if you can eliminate it, great.  If it’s economical, consider parking within walking distance of the terminal.  Check online ahead of time for coupons.

Consider your Baggage – Whether travelling with a baby or without, I always suggest bringing a carry-on only.  I hate checked baggage.  Since we were just going for a long weekend we did not check baggage but if you are going for longer you will need to.  If checking a large stroller contain it in some kind of bag.  I would advise against checking your car seat…. have you seen the way the luggage guys whip the suitcases on the tarmac!? That will be your carseat; you may be able to gate check it.

As for transporting your child? I would suggest baby wearing as much as possible. When Mini Hobo was a little older we invested in a cheap umbrella stroller. It was awesome to wheel him right up the plane and then gate check the stroller.

Survive Security – Have your passports handy.  If you are not travelling with your spouse you may need a note from them indicating they are aware of your baby’s travels.  This is more likely the case if you are crossing borders.  When going through security you will get the VIP treatment!  People with babies often get to go to the front of the line.  They will check bottles, breastmilk bags, and baby food and allow you to take it through security. Lastly, find your gate and wait.  Congrats you made it!  You will probably get to board first which is another perk of travelling with a newborn.

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Prepare for Dirty Looks – Within a 5 seat radius I could feel the eyes on Mini Hobo and me.  Yup, sorry about your luck, you got stuck sitting near the baby.  Not everyone has experience with newborns so don’t expect them to be kind and understanding.  I found people were fine but definitely not overjoyed to realize they would be flying with a 3 month old.

Make Take Off a Breeze – This is the part I was most nervous about.  For once I actually listened to the emergency procedures!  The flight attendants were very helpful.  They showed me how to hold my Mini Hobo during take off and landing.  I asked if I could nurse during take off and they said yes as long as I had a secure hold on him.  My plan was to nurse during take off so Mini Hobo would swallow and his ears wouldn’t hurt.  As usual, babies have a way of ruining your plans.  But this time it was for the good!  Mini Hobo must have been so exhausted from our scramble to get to the airport that he nursed and then slept during take off.  Other suggestions I researched online are use a pacifier or have the newborn drink breastmilk/water from a bottle.

Entertain Baby During The Flight – Since it was only a two hour flight we didn’t need too much to entertain Mini Hobo.  He slept for a good chunk.  He looked out the window and enjoyed gawking around at all the people on the flight.  He nursed for landing and the FullSizeRender[1]pressure did not seem to bother his ears.  We did have Baby Tylonol on hand and were prepared to use it if he was in pain.  We used some on the way home but it was because he was having major teething pains.  Some other advice would be to bring a few favourite books or new toys, sing to baby, walk the aisles,  or if you are desperate entertain baby with your phone on Airplane Mode.

Ease into Arrival – Don’t worry about rushing off the plane with everyone else.  Take your time and make sure you have collected all your belongings.  In an ideal situation someone will be meeting you at the airport to pick you up with a carseat. You can also rent car seats at car rental spots but there are mixed reviews online about doing that because you don’t know the history of the carseat. Public transportation is a great and easy option for travelling with a newborn as well, as long as you can manage all your bags.

There you have it!  Admittedly, travelling with a newborn takes a lot of  careful planning and forethought.  It was also a lot more work than traveling solo, but in my opinion it was completely worth it!  I was very excited to share my passion for traveling with my Mini Hobo. I’m looking forward to many more adventures to come!

The Roads of Travel Lead to Love… A Valentine’s Day edition

It’s that time of year again; either the admired or dreaded Valentine’s Day.  Valentine’s Day is a celebration of Love.  So in honour of this pseudo-holiday, I present to you the reasons why the Roads of Travel Lead to Love!

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Traveling with a Companion – Traveling with a partner can make or break a relationship.  You witness a side of the other person that you don’t get a chance to see in everyday life.  I can recall many less than ideal situations with HubbyHobo in developing countries.  Racing through an airport only to find out we’ve missed our flight and realizing we have no place to sleep; enduring hallucinogenic-like fevers; or simply gaining an understanding that my definition of fun and acceptable activities varies vastly from my partners (I honestly thought HubbyHobo would enjoy waking up on a rickety floating hut in the middle of a Thai Lake on Christmas Day!).  Regardless of the situation, you only have each other and you can either problem solve and work together to rectify  the situation or self implode as a couple.  More often than not, what seems like a crisis situation at the time turns into one of the most laughable stories you share with your friends when you get home. Experiencing the ups and downs of travel together only makes you stronger as a pair.

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Who wouldn’t want to wake up here Christmas Day!?

Love for Yourself – It’s hard to be single on Valentine’s Day.  But here’s the good news; just because you don’t have a partner to share your travel experiences with, doesn’t mean you aren’t on the Road to Love.  Part of being open to Love (of any kind) is being able to love yourself first.  If you lack true confidence, self-efficacy, and identity it is difficult to fully open yourself up to another person.  Being a happy and fulfilled person will allow you to give a future relationship opportunity the fair shot it deserves.  I can’t think of a better way to gain an understanding of your morals, values, and personal capabilities than by traveling.  Traveling may not be the direct Road to traditional Love, but it can play an important role in self discovery and loving yourself.

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Traveling Solo – No matter your relationship status, traveling alone will Lead to Love.  As stated above, traveling single will help you to grow as a person.  Leaving a loved one behind will also provide you with personal insight about yourself and your partner.  I left HubbyHobo for 100 days.  While it was hard being away from him, I found when I returned we were more in love than ever.  It became obvious how much we enjoyed each other’s company and basic daily companionship.  It also made us realize what each of us brought to the relationship.  Just because you do things separately, does not mean you aren’t working towards a more loving partnership.  HubbyHobo had no desire to travel to Africa but he understood that I did and supported me in that.  If that’s not Love, I don’t know what is!

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Super Solo at Vic Falls

Love for Other Cultures – Lastly, the Traveling Road can Lead to the Love of other human beings.  By experiencing different cultures we gain an understanding of how others live or view life.  This opens us up to becoming more loving people in general.  We learn not to categorize people based on race, religion, gender, or money.  People are people.  Traveling allows us to open our hearts to everybody and gain a basic Love for humankind.

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This lady was so happy we were in Lewoh to teach she gave us some bananas.  🙂

Who needs flowers and chocolates?! … grab a loved one and hit the road!

Happy Valentine’s Day Hobos.

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