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Travellers Make the Greatest Parents!

So my travelling adventures have not been as exotic as usual. There is good reason for that. I have a mini hobo now! When I would sit and nurse for what felt like hours on end I often reminisced about past expeditions. Now that I’m truly in the groove of parenthood I know that many of the skills and attitudes that make me an awesome Mom can be attributed to my past adventures! Why are travellers the best Parents? I’ll fill you in:

sleepHygiene – Or lack thereof. It doesn’t seem to bother me that if need-be I can go days without a shower. Sure, who doesn’t love a quiet, hot, relaxing shower? But sadly, sometimes when on the road or trying to juggle a screaming infant for hours on end, personal hygiene takes a back seat.

Sleep – Having the ability to sleep anytime, anywhere truly is a fantastic quality to possess; as a traveller and also as a new parent! The first three months of parenthood basically feels the same as jet lag so the ability to get a catnap is key.

Carrying your Life on your Back – While backpacking one becomes accustomed to carrying everything they own on their back. This skill comes in handy when you have to pack up your diaper bag, bottles, your purse, toys, food, change of clothes, oh and your kids, in order to leave the house for more than 3 hours at a time. Being able to juggle all of your belongings while trying to reach a destination really is a talent in of itself.

Navigating Unfamiliar Territory – I can guarantee that even the most experienced travellers have been lost at some point. Completely turned around in a foreign country trying to communicate in a language they don’t speak. Being a new parent feels exactly the same. You have no idea what you are doing and your little one can’t tell you what they need. Your go-with-the-flow attitude acquired while gallivanting is going to make you a great parent.

It’s the Best Decision You’ll Ever Make! – ” I should have travelled less”… said NO ONE EVER! Just like travelling, parenting can be hard work with its ups and downs. In my opinion though, it will be one of the best decisions you’ll ever make. My Hobo heart looks forward to the day where I get to share my love of travel with the little mini love in my life.

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My Mini-Hobo

Camping with a Baby: 10 Packing Must-Haves

This past week Mini-Hobo and I braved the great outdoors and went camping for a week.   Here are 10 Packing Must-Haves for a camping trip with a baby.

  1. Pop Up Play Tent – This was a lifesaver!  The pop-up tent with the screened in wallsIMG_3898 and attached floor gave Mini-Hobo a spot to crawl around without us having to worry about bugs, too much sun, or him eating fistfuls of sand and twigs.
  2. Wipes, wipes, and more wipes – Expect that your baby will get dirty while camping. The whole family used these wipes for cleaning hands, tidying the table and high chair, and wiping up food so birds or other critters don’t find leftovers.
  3. Sunscreen and Bug Repellant – No matter how much you try to stay in the shade,IMG_3842 baby will be exposed to a bit of sun.  If it’s too hot to cover up the little bambino with clothes keep some sunscreen on hand.  Also, a natural bug repellant to spray the high chair, stroller, or baby’s legs and arms can prevent a lot of itchy bites later.
  4. White noise machine – When camping one is supposed to enjoy the quiet serenity of nature but we know that doesn’t always happen.  The birds sing early in the morning and fellow campers may stay up singing around the campfire late at night.  Bring a white noise machine to help baby block out all the unfamiliar sounds.IMG_3908
  5. Stroller/Carrier – Having a way to transport baby is key.  The stroller is nice if the trails are smooth enough to meander on.  The carrier is perfect for hiking or completing tasks around camp.  Hopefully your wee one can catch a nap in one of these too!
  6. Sunhat and Sunglasses – See point #3; despite your best efforts baby will be exposed to the sun.  Bring a sunhat with a brim and sunglasses with a strap.  Now good luck trying to get your little one to keep them on!
  7. UV Blanket – Every afternoon we would walk Mini-Hobo around the campground or down the beach. And every afternoon he would fall asleep.  Having a UV blanket is handy in order to drape over the stroller so no sun or bugs have access to your little babe.  The blanket is breathable and semi-transparent too.
  8. Storage Bin – You are probably using one of these to pack your belongings; did you storage bin bath tubknow it can do double duty?  When Mini-Hobo got overheated or needed a bath we would simply fill the bin up with water and stick him in it.  He had a grand time splashing around!
  9. Clip on High Chair – On uneven terrain a high chair that clips onto the picnic table is perfect!  We left ours on the picnic table all week and simply took the tray off to give it a wipe (see #2) before every meal.
  10. An Easy-Going Attitude – Heading into the wilderness without electricity or easily accessible running water can seem daunting; especially with a baby.  Don’t worry, the fun you will have watching your little one take in all the joys of the outdoors will outweigh any less-than-luxurious living conditions you will endure.  Relax, have fun, know that there will be a few hard moments, and enjoy every minute of your adventure!

    What is your Camping Must-Have?  Add your suggestions in the comments.

The Roads of Travel Lead to Love… A Valentine’s Day edition

It’s that time of year again; either the admired or dreaded Valentine’s Day.  Valentine’s Day is a celebration of Love.  So in honour of this pseudo-holiday, I present to you the reasons why the Roads of Travel Lead to Love!

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Traveling with a Companion – Traveling with a partner can make or break a relationship.  You witness a side of the other person that you don’t get a chance to see in everyday life.  I can recall many less than ideal situations with HubbyHobo in developing countries.  Racing through an airport only to find out we’ve missed our flight and realizing we have no place to sleep; enduring hallucinogenic-like fevers; or simply gaining an understanding that my definition of fun and acceptable activities varies vastly from my partners (I honestly thought HubbyHobo would enjoy waking up on a rickety floating hut in the middle of a Thai Lake on Christmas Day!).  Regardless of the situation, you only have each other and you can either problem solve and work together to rectify  the situation or self implode as a couple.  More often than not, what seems like a crisis situation at the time turns into one of the most laughable stories you share with your friends when you get home. Experiencing the ups and downs of travel together only makes you stronger as a pair.

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Who wouldn’t want to wake up here Christmas Day!?

Love for Yourself – It’s hard to be single on Valentine’s Day.  But here’s the good news; just because you don’t have a partner to share your travel experiences with, doesn’t mean you aren’t on the Road to Love.  Part of being open to Love (of any kind) is being able to love yourself first.  If you lack true confidence, self-efficacy, and identity it is difficult to fully open yourself up to another person.  Being a happy and fulfilled person will allow you to give a future relationship opportunity the fair shot it deserves.  I can’t think of a better way to gain an understanding of your morals, values, and personal capabilities than by traveling.  Traveling may not be the direct Road to traditional Love, but it can play an important role in self discovery and loving yourself.

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Traveling Solo – No matter your relationship status, traveling alone will Lead to Love.  As stated above, traveling single will help you to grow as a person.  Leaving a loved one behind will also provide you with personal insight about yourself and your partner.  I left HubbyHobo for 100 days.  While it was hard being away from him, I found when I returned we were more in love than ever.  It became obvious how much we enjoyed each other’s company and basic daily companionship.  It also made us realize what each of us brought to the relationship.  Just because you do things separately, does not mean you aren’t working towards a more loving partnership.  HubbyHobo had no desire to travel to Africa but he understood that I did and supported me in that.  If that’s not Love, I don’t know what is!

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Super Solo at Vic Falls

Love for Other Cultures – Lastly, the Traveling Road can Lead to the Love of other human beings.  By experiencing different cultures we gain an understanding of how others live or view life.  This opens us up to becoming more loving people in general.  We learn not to categorize people based on race, religion, gender, or money.  People are people.  Traveling allows us to open our hearts to everybody and gain a basic Love for humankind.

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This lady was so happy we were in Lewoh to teach she gave us some bananas.  🙂

Who needs flowers and chocolates?! … grab a loved one and hit the road!

Happy Valentine’s Day Hobos.

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